12.30.2011

Christmas Week Happenings 2011

Our Christmas Vacation was 10 days in Troy's original hometown of Pella, IA.  It was an important year as Troy and his father Mike had not spent a Christmas together since the 80's.  There's much to mention, so it is hard to keep this post to an acceptable reading length, so I may have to break it up into three posts;  Christmas Week Happenings, The Recipe Box Make Over Project, and notes from The Unthinkable.

However, if you are just looking for a summary of our Christmas; a sample of photos are below
  • We went birdwatching (Bald Eagles, Cardinals, Pelicans, Hairy Woodpeckers, Barren Owl, BlueJay to name a few)
  • Watched Hallmark Christmas movies
  • Tried new recipes (such as Sandy's Calico Beans and Baked French Toast)
  • Learned tips and tricks on how to be frugal from Cindy
  • Everyone submitted their Bowl picks and the guys watched every game, while Mike tracked all the results, (Mike is currently ahead)
  • Cindy and Scheris walked ~6-7 miles each morning
  • Alyssa did puzzles beyond galore, sheesh, who knew
  • Visited antique stores
  • Attended the local LDS branch
  • Went to Christmas Eve Service at the Third Reformed Church
  • Had a large meal with the Schuring relatives and the home where Troy's dad was raised and played a White Elephant game with a Sports theme and we came home with great gifts (Iowa Camelbak waterbottle, this Kelty picnic pack, and an UnderArmour beanie.
  • Did family history, copied family photos and artwork
  • Visited the oldest home in Pella, also where Troy's Grandfather lived for a few years
  • Saw Santa
  • Took the yearly photo of Alyssa in front of the Pella Town sign
  • Learned a bit more about family member Gideon Rietveld's Patent #1778608, filed February 4, 1929 for his Match Box Holder design
  • Did a few craft projects: felt poinsetta napkin ring holders, Antique Recipe box make overs, Photo Block Puzzle
  • Relaxed in the hot tub
  • Read books
  • Visited and lunched with Alyssa's Great Grandparents and received tons of intricately hand crocheted doilies
  • Alyssa and I dusted, photographed, and documented Cindy's 80 something Precious Moments and that was fun to read the names and touch each piece
  • Drove by the Kansas City Temple, nearing completion of construction
  • But most importantly this year - we gathered each night to dessert and discuss different aspects to the Original Christmas Story
All in all, it was a valuable family investment, but I do think we overstayed our welcome by about 6 days.  No matter how sweet they smile and won't admit it, I think our poor hosts had to have been sick of us.  I realized it isn't really possible to relax at the home of Family or feel good about relaxing when you know the hostess of the house is slaving over the details while the boys sit around watching football.     

wear out (one's) welcome
To visit so often or stay so long as to become a nuisance.
 
Needless to say, Grandpa's eyes appeared glossy when he drove away, so he was either super tired after hosting us for 10 days, or the air quality was bothersome, or he already was missing his son and grand daughter!  I think we overstayed our welcome.    

Summary of Christmas Discussions
Day 1
Read story in the 'Especially For Mormons' volume 3, when Mary tells Joseph of the pregnancy.  You can find it printed here.
DAY 2 - Saturday
We watched all 6 LDS Bible Videos
DAY 3 - Sunday
Listen to Charles Osgood – Luke 2
DAY 4 – Monday
Discussion: As we celebrate the birth of our Lord, we should remember to really focus on what Jesus did at the end of His mortal life and ministry.  The wondrous and true story of Christmas can be organized like so; 
  • Preface - His birth in Bethlehem of Judea
  • Prologue - His three-year ministry
  • Substance -  His sacrifice
  • Finally - the totally selfless act of dying in pain on the cross of Calvary to atone for the sins of all of us
There would be no Christmas, if there had not been Easter. The babe of Bethlehem would have occurred but he would have been just another baby.

We went on to detail the Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How. 

The significance of this mortal birth was more critical than we often realize.  It was not an experimental thing, nor an event that was optional in the plan of salvation. The coming of a part-divine part-mortal Jesus into the world, Son of Mary and Only Begotten of the Father, was an absolute necessity. The human family could be saved in no other way. Only the Lord himself, by coming into mortality, partaking of the nature of man, living a sinless life, atoning with his blood for the sins of men, dying, and rising from the dead with his physical body could bring about redemption. Eternal justice would admit no other way.
DAY 5 – Tuesday
Family Discussion:  We do not worship Mary, but we do revere her!   She is among the most worthy and noble of women—the most privileged of all mothers. And while Mary is not typical, she is an example to all mothers.
 We can conclude that as the Father chose the most noble and righteous of all his spirit sons to come into mortality as his Only Begotten in the flesh, we can also know he selected in the pre-existence, the most worthy and spiritually talented of all his spirit daughters to be the mortal mother of his Eternal Son.  Her life was one of faithful, obedient receptivity. She did not ignore counsel, but “kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart.” Luke 2:19

Day 6 - Wednesday
This night we pulled out Jesus' stocking.  We read our prior year committments and re-wrote 2012 gifts to our Savior and sealed them in envelopes and placed them back in Jesus' white stocking!

DAY 7 – Thursday - The Day we celebrated Christmas with gift exchanging
Read the children's classic story of Tootle.  About a month ago, this was introduced in Relief Society by Linda, a mother of four boys.   

The story tells of a young locomotive who is in training to become a big locomotive.   The locomotive will learn all the skills that  will be needed to become a successful locomotive. 

The most important skill that each train must learn is to STAY ON THE TRACKS NO MATTER WHAT.  

Tootle came to the school and was seen as a potentially successful flyer, running important routes, such as Chicago to New York.  He did very well in mastering most of the skills he would need to become such a wonderful locomotive. 

One day he was tempted to race a black horse that was in the meadow beside the tracks.  In order to win, he decided to leave the tracks and cut across the meadow.  He found that he really enjoyed the meadow and began visiting it more often.  He was failing at his original goal and the reality of reaching it was getting further away.  The people of the village came up with a plan to get Tootle back on track and out of the Meadows, as they had noticed grass and buttercups on the small train's wheels.  The community was critical to supporting this up and coming Leader, they had to help him remember the important lesson of "staying on the rails no matter what."  So they all worked together to help Tootle be the best train he could possibly be.  Eventually Tootle raced to get back on track. “This is the place for me” said Tootle. “There is nothing but red flags for locomotives that get off their tracks.”
Tootle became the famous ‘Two Mile a Minute Flyer!’

What a profound message this story holds for our lives.... what is our mission here on earth, where are those 'fun meadows' that distract us from returning home to live with our Savior? What is preventing you from becoming the BEST YOU?   How can we avoid the red flags and assist our fellow 'brother and sisters' in the doing the same? Distractions are everywhere and idleness is easy to justify, all of which don't really help us stay on track.  Pretty soon the fun goes away, bad habits linger, and we are frustrating our divine purposes, even longing for a way out.  BUT there is always a way to get back on the tracks, so we should not delay that action.  We each will face different kinds of distractions, but Heavenly Father has given us a designated path to come home, through the Lord Jesus Christ.  I love this book that reminds me to be weary of the 'meadows' and lean on my Faith to get me through the hard times. 

Here are some photos from the trip. 























  

12.10.2011

One Thousand Two Hundred Thirty Seven

That number is how many days it took me to get the courage to prepare for a 13th birthday party with eleven girls.  I believe I have subconsciously been preparing for this day since July 19, 2007, because it is too ironic that on the morning of Alyssa's 13th birthday, I awoke to the sighting of a grey hair.  My second one ever, it had been 512 days since I spotted the first one.    
Anyway, this post isn't about me, so here is how the day came to be.  Back in September, I began thinking about a party for Alyssa since I have never hosted one for her.  I tried to make the nasty thought go away, but it wouldn't, so I began entertaining the idea. 

I really didn't want a pizza and ice cream and rowdy scene, instead we had an Evening of Elegance for the young ladies.  Because Lys likes teal right now, here are the invitations I sent out to 13 girls in the Beehive age group (12/13).

Before I can continue, I must say, I am thoroughly IMPRESSED that these girls were able to keep this secret from Alyssa.  I asked the mom's to keep it a secret from their daughters for as long as possible, but even this last week, I know there were at least two occasions when they could have slipped up.  I get teary eyed when I think of well they honored me by keeping my special event a surprise!

I began reaching out to all my friends and family and ended up borrowing all these items and receiving help from so many wonderful people, THANK YOU MY LOVELY FRIENDS!!!!

The Malm Family - silver serving dishes and napkin rings
Auntie - cake frosting instructions, real bakery coloring paste, frosting tips, frosting turn table, sprinkles
Sister Kathy - gave me some key party details
Sister Lisa - organza chair bows
Sister Chris - chair covers
Sister Barbara - utensils for 11 and table cloth
Sister Cami - table cloth
Sister Camille - toasting flutes
Sister Cathy - sheer curtains
Sister Laura - china
Sister Jana - water goblets and a chair
Sam - powdered sugar and a chair and 2 hours of help setting up
Sister Mary - serving dishes, invaluable resource on connecting me to so many others
Brother Phil - served the girls as a 'waiter' for over 2 hours
Sister Stephanie - cut and styled Alyssa's hair and entertained her, was able to get her dressed for her own party, without her even realizing it!

Here is Alyssa getting scared out of her mind, she looks like she is about to cry.
 She wouldn't make eye contact with anyone for about a minute, it was odd indeed.
It took her awhile to understand that she wasn't going to dinner with dad, that it had all been a 'story'.  This was her party and dinner was going to be here!
Here is the place setting.  The tree is an ornament and party favor and also the place card holder.  All the girls were addressed as Lady.  The suckers in the napkins were supposed to be party favors, but when I wasn't paying attention, they somehow became one of the appetizers.
The girls were greeted at the door with sparkling cider flutes and quiche appetizers.  They all seemed to love it and we overheard, "this is the fanciest thing I have ever been to."  That was a sweet compliment from Lady H.

Lovely Ladies

the handsome waiters
Talk about a happy birthday girl
 The ladies did amazing when they considered shopping for Alyssa.  It was so fun to see how the personalities came out in those choices.  The outdoorsy friend gave her a backpacking towel and wool socks.  The artsy friend gave her a sketch book.  The girly girl gave her perfume.  She really received the most beautiful collection of genuine gifts and so many took care to remember her favorite color!
Later the girls danced, yep, my house was a bumpin'... I couldn't believe how far I had come in 1,237 days.  I loved having the girls in my home. 
BUT my biggest accomplishment may just be the personalized banner that I made.  I stayed up till 2:30 am one night enjoying the deep love that I was experiencing for Alyssa, while making it. 


like mother, like daughter

Timeline
2:45 - Troy dropped her off to have her nails done
3:30 - Stef texted her with an 'emergency' babysitting need, Alyssa replied no that had swim practice
4:00 - When Alyssa got to Stef's, Stef had to pretend that she never got the message that Alyssa was still coming and instead got another babysitter, but since she had cancelled her client, she had room for Alyssa to get her hair cut right then!  How convenient! (Apparently, Alyssa was not amused) 
5:00 - Stef pretended she had received some 'used' clothes from the neighbor girl, that Alyssa may like since her daughter would take years to grow into them. 
5:10 - We told Stef to tell Lys to stay dressed up so that she could go to dinner with her father.
5:45 - Stef dropped off Lys at our house

It did go perfect and I am so grateful to our friends for helping us.  We couldn't have done it without them. Words can't express how much this experience meant to our family in so many ways.

Happy Birthday My Lovely Lady Daughter!